25 Ways to Avoid an Ambivalent Man
Dear Broken Hearted Girl,
When you're moving on from a divorce, you are going to meet all types of men. There's the player, the serial dater and sometimes the ambivalent man.
Avoid another broken heart by avoiding this man.
Here are Rhonda Findling's 25 ways to avoid an Ambivalent Man:
Ambivalent Man- 1. one who exhibits or feels ambivalence toward women. 2. one who plays games. He wants a relationship; he wants to break up. He’s confused, mixed up, inconsistent, and unpredictable. Yet he’s irresistible and easy to fall in love with… and almost sure to cause a broken heart.
Sometimes they’re difficult to detect so here are 20 signs you are dealing with an Ambivalent Man:
Sign 1: You feel jerked around by him
Sign 2: He takes a long time to get back to you if you leave him a message
Sign 3: He’s super seductive
Sign 4: He’s unreliable
Sign 5: He pulls the disappearing act
Sign 6: He’s completely unpredictable
Sign 7: He’s self-absorbed
Sign 8: He wants instant gratification
Sign 9: He’s a mystery man
Sign 10: He won’t take responsibility for his own behavior
Sign 11: He’s married or dating other women
Sign 12: He talks constantly about his ex
Sign 13: He plays games from the start
Sign 14: What he says and what he does are completely different
Sign 15: You get the distancing lecture immediately
Sign 16: He’s had no or few relationships with women
Sign 17: He goes to endless singles events
Sign 18: He flirts but never asks you out
Sign 19: He doesn’t give you his home phone number
Sign 20: His life is chaotic
This list is an excerpt from my book “The Commitment Cure: What to Do When You Fall for an Ambivalent Man”.
My 5 new signs that have not been included in “The Commitment Cure” are
He mostly texts you instead of calling you
He says “we” on occasion (when he’s not referring to you and him) making you wonder who “we” is
When he’s back again after disappearing he claims he asked you out or called you, when in reality he never did (gaslighting)
He depends on you to make the next move or initiate
He starts out excited to be connecting with you, then loses quickly interest
When you're moving on from a divorce, you are going to meet all types of men. There's the player, the serial dater and sometimes the ambivalent man.
Avoid another broken heart by avoiding this man.
Here are Rhonda Findling's 25 ways to avoid an Ambivalent Man:
Ambivalent Man- 1. one who exhibits or feels ambivalence toward women. 2. one who plays games. He wants a relationship; he wants to break up. He’s confused, mixed up, inconsistent, and unpredictable. Yet he’s irresistible and easy to fall in love with… and almost sure to cause a broken heart.
Sometimes they’re difficult to detect so here are 20 signs you are dealing with an Ambivalent Man:
Sign 1: You feel jerked around by him
Sign 2: He takes a long time to get back to you if you leave him a message
Sign 3: He’s super seductive
Sign 4: He’s unreliable
Sign 5: He pulls the disappearing act
Sign 6: He’s completely unpredictable
Sign 7: He’s self-absorbed
Sign 8: He wants instant gratification
Sign 9: He’s a mystery man
Sign 10: He won’t take responsibility for his own behavior
Sign 11: He’s married or dating other women
Sign 12: He talks constantly about his ex
Sign 13: He plays games from the start
Sign 14: What he says and what he does are completely different
Sign 15: You get the distancing lecture immediately
Sign 16: He’s had no or few relationships with women
Sign 17: He goes to endless singles events
Sign 18: He flirts but never asks you out
Sign 19: He doesn’t give you his home phone number
Sign 20: His life is chaotic
This list is an excerpt from my book “The Commitment Cure: What to Do When You Fall for an Ambivalent Man”.
My 5 new signs that have not been included in “The Commitment Cure” are
He mostly texts you instead of calling you
He says “we” on occasion (when he’s not referring to you and him) making you wonder who “we” is
When he’s back again after disappearing he claims he asked you out or called you, when in reality he never did (gaslighting)
He depends on you to make the next move or initiate
He starts out excited to be connecting with you, then loses quickly interest
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