Strategies for De-Stressing. Writing It Out

Dear Broken Hearted Girl,

We talk a lot about writing and how it can heal heal your soul. Here's an article from emotionalhealth.com that speak to journal exercises and how they assist in aiding dire situations. So, if writing can help a person who has had direct exposure to acts of terrorism or war, then you know that it can help you work through your feelings of despair. Break Ups are not the end of the world, but man, they certainly do hurt a lot.

Feel better!

MJ


Strategies for De-Stressing

Writing It Out



Clinicians at the Mind/Body Medical Institute have found that the following journal exercise helps relieve ongoing sources of stress. A single attempt is not enough, though. When you first sit down to write about a problem, you may feel more anxious. The wound, once exposed, may initially hurt more than it did while hidden. But continuing to write about the same problem over the course of several days often enables you to work through difficult emotions and reach resolution or acceptance.

Here’s some advice before you begin:
Deeply troubling events and situations, such as domestic violence, rape, or direct exposure to acts of terrorism or war, are best explored with an experienced therapist. For other situations, you can proceed on your own and seek professional help only if you feel you need assistance.

If you’re physically healthy, choose the most stressful event or problem you currently face. It’s usually one that you frequently dwell upon. Or, if you think your current problems stem from past circumstance, write about traumatic events in your past.

Truly let go. Write down what you feel and why you feel that way.

Write for yourself, not others. Don’t worry about grammar or sentence structure. If you run out of things to say in the time allotted, feel free to repeat yourself.

Do this exercise for 15–20 minutes a day for three to four days or as long as a week if you feel writing continues to be helpful.