Moving On- Divorce Shower Gift Ideas

Dear Broken Hearted Girl,

No doubt by now that you’ve heard of the new trend in divorce; the divorce shower. If you haven’t, pick up the latest issue of REDBOOK. They’ve got a great article about it.

So you’re probably thinking...if I have a divorce shower, where should I register? For what should I ask? Here are some tips:


Think Practically.

A divorce shower is supposed to compensate for the loss of half your stuff. Towels, a toaster, plates (not fine china) and sheets, are all practical gifts.


Don’t Register at Tiffany’s.

Think Target or Bed, Bath & Beyond. These places are inexpensive and practical. Your friends and their wallets will appreciate your choice of stores.


Don’t Invite Everyone You Know.

Only invite your closest friends and family. Divorce is emotional as much as it is the physical separation of domestic items. You may start crying or getting angry about your situation – and you may not want to display these feelings around your co-workers. If you break down at the shower (and I’m not saying you will), then you will be in a comfortable environment in which to do so.


A divorce shower can be a fun and practical way to begin your new life. New sheets, towels, even curtains will not evoke memories of the past...use these gifts as a conduit to making new memories.

Feel better!

-MJ